Why Self-Love Matters & How Do We Get There?

What Is Self-Love?

Self-Love is a mindset while actually living and breathing it. 

TAKING ACTION

Self-Love is about adding value to your life as well as putting yourself first. It is important to understand that it is not selfish to take care of yourself and then everyone else around you. As parents, we can forget this very easily. When you take care of you first, you can take care of everything else too.

Self-Love matters more now than ever. with so many independent freelancers, virtual assistants, mentors and coaches running businesses out there. Entrepreneurship is huge. Self- Love is bigger.

If you want to succeed you have to know how to love yourself first before you can love another. 

What we choose is what we get. Choosing wisely is key. Self- Love can only be accomplished when you choose it.

Speaking kindly to ourselves is a choice. Choose it.

With a positive mindset we can succeed. It’s so important to encourage ourselves to have a positive mindset. Make the right choice, take care of yourself first, there is nothing wrong with self-love.

Almost everyone I know has compared themselves to another human being. I know I have! We need to stop this comparison. We are all unique and different. 

“Stacey has a better head for physics than me. I have a better head with art. Neither one of us needs to compare. We are both living the life we dreamed”.

The sooner we stop comparing ourselves to other human beings, especially those closest to us, the better off we will all be.

If we don’t invite the mistakes in we will never really learn from what we have done. That is why we all make mistakes and none of us are perfect.

Welcome your mistakes as part of who you are. By giving yourself the freedom of forgiveness your journey will continue with more light and success.

Allow forgiveness for yourself as part of your self-love journey. Journal about it all, it can really help.

There are many things and many people that come and go in our lives. We have to learn what we need to keep and what must go. It isn’t easy especially with people and it isn’t a reflection on us being mean. Sometimes we need to make space in our lives for people who lit us up, keep us positive and truly care about you. They are the ones who understand that you come first just like they do in their lives.

Please note: I am not a trained professional in the health care world. If you are seeking help please ask.

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